Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Why?

I decided to give up facebook for a month for quite a few reasons. There are plenty of scary privacy invasion/ marketing things which you can read about here:-

http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2008/jan/14/facebook

When I read that article I thought that it was time to get rid of facebook, so I went to delete my profile information and I found that I didn't want to. I liked my own flattering constructed identity, I wanted people to know that I'm a feminist who loves gorkys. I wanted all my 'oh so endearing' quirks displayed and veiwable.
I wanted random acquaintences to know what sort of music/films/books I like because, you know, they might like the same music/films/books, and then after some thorough poking we would type our way into the sunset .....

Facebook allows us to represent ourselves so that information that would usually take a little while to find out is instantly accessible. I think my virtual self is simoultaneously more and less me.
I would never put one of my interests as 'Routing through charity/vinatage shops for clothes' because it is not part of the 'me' that I want to represent (too vain/shallow too much conforming to indie girl norms). It is something that I do ridiculously often though...
I include amusing quotes rather than serious ones - feminism is much farther down my list of interests and activities than is actually justified, really it is not me. Then again it is - I have difficulty taking things very seriously, I do like music and films a lot. If I delete my profile, am I deleting a little part of me? When I write that I think , god that's ludicrous, but really I mean the internet is definately a public space which people exist in, and 'networking sites' form the main medium of this interaction.

The fact that I didn't want to get rid of this made me feel as if perhaps, I was too attached to my 'virtual identity'. Also I go on the damned thing far too often because I like people watching. I always have enjoyed looking at people and wondering things about them from the way the walk/dress/appear and facebook totally encourages this. Looking at profiles is just like people watching only you find out a lot more, and you can do it anywhere or any time ( particularly when you are supposed to be writing essays or going to sleep)

So I have decided to give up facebook for a month and to find out if this increases my productivity/sleep and maybe even the strength of my friendships ( hopefully I won't lose touch with too many people). I decided to write a blog about it because I still want people to look at me on the internet. I also really like writing, and without television I am not sure how I would fill my procrastination time !!

Anyway it promises to be an epic journey filled with powerful insight into 21st century interaction. Or something. Thanks for reading - comments are very welcome :)

1 comment:

Christian Feminist said...

Good luck with giving up facebook, I think I might try and give it up for lent just to see if I can. I'm waaaaaay to dependant on it to communicate with people, to the point that for lots of people it really is the only way we talk. Which is not great.
Rachel xx